It is New Year’s Day, January 1, 2015, and I thought I wasn’t going to make any resolutions this year. I’ve got a new job, and in the second half of 2014 I set goals to make sure I didn’t forget my personal life in the excitement of my new work life: exercise four times a week, blow dry my hair twice a week (I work from home).
After a couple of months on the job, I carved out time – 6 AM – for exercise, and I managed to dry my hair and (gasp) wear makeup at least twice a week. I felt pretty good accomplishing those two goals and didn’t feel like I needed any others.
The only problem is that the 6 AM time slot used to be my writing time. So while I’m adding health and hygiene back into my life now that I work full time, I haven’t managed to add writing back in. I rarely write for myself anymore. I’ve journalled maybe 5 times since I began my job in July, and many of my recent blog posts have been photo-heavy or have been recycled content. Not so thoughtful or writerly anymore. I haven’t been to my critique group in six months, and I quit my craft group as well (sniff).
I want to change that in 2015. So I guess I’ll be making a resolution after all. It feels like I’m going backwards: last year I resolved to focus on the nuances, the skills, the craft of writing, this year I’m just trying to write.
I’ll start small. I’ve fallen out of the habit of writing. It is no longer a part of my daily routine. I want to add it back into my life, to make it as integral to the structure of my day as coffee and exercise are.
In 2015, I resolve to dedicate ten minutes a day to writing. Ten minutes is so little. I can do it after my 6AM workout, when pushups have gotten my creative juices flowing. Or I can do it before that workout, when I’m still in a dream state. Or on lunch. Or on a break. Or in bed when I realize, Oh crap, I haven’t written yet today.
I don’t have to post what I’ve written to my blog, though sometimes I’m sure I will. Like this post, the first of 2015’s ten-minute writes.
All the best with the writing goal, Andrea. You’re wise to set a small manageable and achievable goal. Little and often is doable.
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I love your goal. I have a similar one — not grand in scope, but realistic and manageable for me and my busy schedule. Read. Just read. I used to be such an avid reader, but my new school has inspired me to invest so much of myself, my time, that I’ve neglected my love (and need) of reading. Reclaiming what brings you “home” is essential. I can’t wait to read snippets of your writing — it’ll help me stick to my resolution, too!
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I can’t imagine you not reading, Karen! Ten minutes a day – you can do it π
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Yes,if you make goal you can achieve it.I love writing but my schedule of work also very busy,even Sunday.
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Great! Good motivation for me, too. Thanks.
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take a notebook on your run…
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Hmm, that’s not a bad idea. I do have a tiny Moleskine. I just have to figure out how to carry it with me.
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I take mine in my pocket, but boys tend to have bigger pockets; a ploy to sell handbags I believe.
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Doing the same! good luck π enjoy your year!
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Good luck to you too, Emeline.
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Good idea! Like exercise, the results come through consistency.
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Excellent resolution! Hope you’ll be able to find time to come back to writers’ group too. I miss you. We miss you. BTW, in case I didn’t say it before, I LOVE your new look.
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Thanks judy π im really want to be at critique next week, so hopefully ill see you there.
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Start small and build back up the muscle! The Universe will help
Out along the way…
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So much to do so little time.
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I think the struggle to “fit everything in” happens to most all of us. I have almost given up the pursuit of a truly balanced life where everything gets equal time and attention. I try to reconcile myself to the idea that shifting focus from one thing to another is how it will be. As soon as something feels neglected, it’s time to pay it more attention until something else feels neglected and then I shift. Not perfect by any means. π
I also found an article in my inbox right after I read your post that you might be interested in about the psychology of writing (and a book with that same title). Good luck to you with your new goal – you can do it!
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Good food for thought. Thank you. I’ve been buying mens sweatpants just for the pockets. Even pajama bottoms because women’s pjs usually don’t have pockets. I need good pockets. π
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That’s a very useful tip. Hadn’t noticed that before.
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Reading this as i have my cup of tea, getting ready for the first day of work in 2015. Already wondering how im going to keep the promises ive made to myself. Thanks for sharing…10 mins a day has got to be doable for me to.
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I’m “write” there with ya! Yes ten minutes feels like a manageable goal. Thanks for the inspiration.
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Butterfly Mind,
I have no trouble writing all day and all night…the trouble is that life gets in the way. Your sentiments relate more to my violin practice. It takes about a good 30-60 minutes of practice a day to progress. I’ve only been learning for 3 years so I’m still on the uphill run and am wanting to learn skills like vibrato before I let it slide. This level of practice is a major commitment, especially when I’m married with two kids, have 2 dogs and have writing and photography as my main things. I am having to get real strict with myself and get back to having a set time. I was doing it straight after the kids went to bed but they are staying up later and I get writing and the next thing I know it, its too late.
Your post has reminded me of this commitment for the New Year.
By the way, I have noticing people dropping off with their blogging and writing, even when they’ve had a great following and I struggle to understand that. You have such a gift both with your writing and photography but also with how you see and interpret things around you. I hope you will pull of these 10 minute snatches!! xx Rowena
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Came upon this post again last night as I read your most recent ones. I tried something before bed: I set my timer for 15:00 on my iPhone, then started writing. I had a loose idea for a post, but didn’t think I’d finish it, nor did I expect to. I just wanted to write for that period of time.
The timer got to 0:00. I’d slipped into a flow, so I set the timer for 15:00 again. That time depleted, so I set it again, as I was still writing. And then, again, as I was still writing. I then had to leave to pick up my husband at the train station, cutting this timing experiment short. But this morning, as I look at what I wrote, I see that I’m a third, or perhaps halfway through a piece that I’m actually happy with.
There’s something about a timer. Knowing there is a *finite* period to work with helps tremendously — there’s a boundary that prevents you for entering that intimidating phase of writing (where you go deep somewhere in your head but aren’t sure what you want to say, what to write) and can simply tell yourself to write in tiny stages, and then stop when the timer is over if you so please. But I kept going, in pieces. I’m going to continue this right now, and see how it goes π
Happy (belated) new year!
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