I’m reading Stumbling on Happiness for my work as a Happiness Engineer at Automattic, and from it I have finally learned the truth about lobotomy. In books and movies, lobotomies are this scary thing that removes all brain function and turns people into vegetables. One of my favorite novels involves lobotomy, but I won’t name the book because naming it in combination with talking about lobotomy would give away its secret sauce.
Anyway, the topic I pulled from my prompt box today, “half-full,” got me to thinking about happiness, and whether optimism and pessimism (which the “half-full” idea tries to pin down) play a role in happiness. The author has not mentioned optimism and pessimism yet. He has begun the book with the idea of looking to the future like no other species does. And I don’t mean instinctively “plan,” like animals do when storing food for winter, but cognitively plan: via imagination.
We imagine futures for ourselves, and often imagining those scenarios is more pleasurable than actualizing those scenarios. For example: having a crush. It’s fun to fantasize and daydream. But if a relationship with the crush comes to fruition, reality, with all its flaws, is often not as pleasurable as the dream. This makes me hypothesize that setting low expectations is a key to happiness. We will see what the author says.
On the flip side of the daydream is anxiety. Whereas a daydream sets the future in a golden light, anxiety is when we foresee dangerous or frightening events. Like fantasizing good things, imagining bad things is controlled by the area of the brain responsible for imagining the future: the frontal lobe. The portion of the brain removed in lobotomies.
Lobotomies fascinate me. In large part because of that novel I won’t name. I’ve always thought they turn a person into a non-functioning walking coma. But they don’t. Lobotomized patients function normally in every way — except when it comes to thinking about the future. At least according to this book I’m reading.
The frontal lobe of the human brain is the portion of the brain that has grown most rapidly in our species’ recent evolution, and it is the portion that differentiates human brains from those of other animal species. Because it controls our ability to imagine and and plan — and therefore is the portion of the brain that is responsible for anxiety — when removed, anxiety disappears.
And so does the ability to daydream.
Thank you rinadiane for submitting the prompt “half-full (as opposed to half-empty).”
Photo credit: “Turning the Mind Inside Out” Saturday Evening Post, 24 May 1941.
I love your posting, it’s so insightful I would love to hear your comments on my postings.
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Editor’s note: Spoiler Alert!
Andrea, perhaps the most popular book of fiction that included lobotomies was “One Flew Over The Cuckoo’s Nest.” Maybe you read it in high school. Kesey wrote it based on his experiences working in a California mental hospital in the late 50s.
The other most “famous” lobotomy involved John F. Kennedy’s sister, Rose. If I recall correctly, her parents had that surgery done to deal with her mental retardation. She spent her life institutionalized and was seen as an embarrassment and source of shame for the family.
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Stumbling on Happiness is my favorite book of all-time so far!
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I’d like to think that some daydreams are self actualized. When that happens, I imagine it’s a majestic moment. I’m still waiting to find out and will keep daydreaming until a moment like that occurs for me. Glass half full here, though I do know some of my happy daydreams are prompted due to prior emotional traumas. For me, it’s a way to heal the pain and imagine a positive future.
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Glass half full or half empty? I’m just grateful to have a glass to put something in. Perspective makes the difference in happiness. If I’m not happy, it means I need to look at what I’m thinking and change it. Very interesting about lobotomies and daydreams. I don’t know if I daydream much anymore. Maybe the brain gives itself a lobotomy when you get old.;) Great article with loads of information. I’ll check out the book. But I’m pretty much a happy person. Content though never satisfied.
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