I considered titling this “Bundle to make things suck less.” It’s a more honest title. I ultimately flipped it, though, to put emphasis on the positive, since that’s the goal with bundling: to have a good experience with something you don’t want to do.
I run for exercise. It’s efficient, effective, and super low maintenance. Running gives me the health benefits of a walk in half the time, running gives me an energy boost and a feeling of accomplishment after I’m done, and to go for a run, I only really need running shoes, a hat to keep the sun out of my eyes, and headphones. No pool, no bike, no facility. Running can happen anywhere.
I don’t particularly like running. I do it because of all the above stuff. I’m always happy after my run is done — I feel invigorated and alive! — but it takes a lot of motivation to actually go out and run. If I don’t have something to distract me, usually in the form of listening, I won’t go. I’m constantly finding excuses not to go. When I can’t get excited about the experience of running, I get bored with it and just stop doing it.
That happened a few months ago. I just couldn’t anymore. I dreaded runs because I was so bored: with my route, with my running playlist, with the activity itself. I walked instead, but walking takes a long time if I’m not actually trying to get somewhere and am just walking for exercise and I really need to get back to the house and get to work.
I thought I needed to listen to music to run. I thought I needed the beat and the energy to keep me going. But I was bored with all my running music, too. Meanwhile, I had podcast episodes piling up in Pocket Casts, and not enough time to listen to them. Hidden Brain, The Happiness Lab, Radiolab, Fresh Air.
So I gave it a go: I listened to a podcast episode instead of music on a run. And it worked! I was so absorbed in what I was listening to that the run just disappeared beneath me. At the end, I still had that awesome post-run energy, and I had the excitement of learning something new.
For several weeks now, I’ve kept up my running practice, running as many as 4 or 5 times per week, because I want to listen to all these podcasts. I want to learn about the human mind, and why commitment can be better than endless choices, and about rabies, and about British Vogue‘s editor in chief. I love to learn, and I love the short format of podcasts, and I love listening for knowledge (as opposed to reading non-fiction books or articles with my eyes). I think for non-fiction I need that human component of voices and interviews and sound effects that can happen in an audio recording that just don’t happen on a page.
Now, I look forward to running. I can’t wait to go out so I can listen to whatever is queued up next in my podcast feed. Now, because I’ve paired something I don’t want to do but needs to be done (run) with something I want to do (learn!), I get excited about my runs, and I actually do them. I learned on one of the Happiness podcasts I listened to that this is called bundling, and now I do it with lots of things. Don’t want to fold clothes or empty the dishwasher? Bundle those activities with podcasts. Don’t want to iron? I’ll watch Schitt’s Creek while I do it.
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I also have an on-again off-again relationship with running. I typically run sans headphones because I’m afraid of zoning out too much and getting hit by a car. I’m also heavily influenced by a meditation teacher that said if you distract yourself while doing something, then you’re not actually living. And that if instead you focus all your attention on it, then you are fully present and therefore fully alive. On the flip side, I listen to music a lot to make things more joyful, and feel very alive while doing so (such as cleaning while singing and dancing). Sorry Badgley, I’m thinking aloud on your blog…
Haha, I love that you are!
The only way I can do laundry is if I’m listening to a podcast (usually a murder one). With dishes, I need to listen to music. Sometimes Grant hijacks the music so I end up doing dishes to “It’s Raining Tacos” on repeat, but that’s ok.
I need to start exercising more frequently, and listening to podcasts is 100% part of the plan!
I didn’t know there was such a song as “It’s Raining Tacos.” I think I need to find this.
Also popular in my house is “Pancake Robot,” “It’s Hailing Tacquitos,” and “Space Unicorn.” We USED to be big into “Baby Yoda” (and it’s still catchy as hell) but it’s been mostly replaced in the rotation with “Pancake Robot” (come and get’em while they’re hot).